Herpes (cold sores & genital herpes):
symptoms, triggers & treatment

At a glance

FrequencyVery common — most adults carry the herpes simplex virus, often without knowing it. Around nine out of ten people have come into contact with HSV-1
Other namesHerpes simplex, cold sores (herpes labialis), genital herpes (herpes genitalis), fever blisters
Key symptomTingling, tightness and burning at a defined spot on the skin, followed by grouped blisters on a reddened base
DiagnosisUsually a visual diagnosis from the typical appearance; for genital herpes or unclear cases a swab with virus detection (PCR)
First lineAntiviral agents such as aciclovir — as a cream or tablet, ideally very early at the first tingling
ICD-10B00.9 (Herpesviral infection, unspecified)

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1. What is herpes?

Herpes is a very common infection with the herpes simplex virus (HSV). Typical are the small, grouped blisters that burn, itch and crust over after a few days — best known as cold sores („fever blisters“) and as genital herpes. The virus is widespread: most adults carry it, often without ever having had noticeable symptoms.

What is special about herpes viruses is that after the first infection they never leave the body. After the first contact they retreat into certain nerve ganglia and stay there in a dormant state for life — this is called latency. From there they can „wake up“ (reactivate) again and again and trigger a fresh flare-up. This explains why herpes typically comes back in the same spot every time: on the lip, at the entrance of the nose or in the genital area.

You can picture it like a dormant lodger in the nervous system: as long as the immune system keeps it in check, it stays invisible. Only when the defences are weakened or irritated by certain triggers does the virus travel back along the nerve pathway to the skin and cause a fresh outbreak there. That is why herpes cannot be permanently „cured“ — but the individual flare-ups can be treated well, shortened and, with the right strategy, often made less frequent too.

The good news Herpes may not be curable, but in the vast majority of cases it is harmless and well manageable. Antiviral agents shorten the flare-up, ease the symptoms and — used early enough — can even soften an outbreak. For frequent recurrences there are additional preventive options.

2. HSV-1 & HSV-2: cold sores vs. genital herpes

There are two closely related types of the herpes simplex virus that could long be clearly assigned — today they increasingly overlap:

FeatureHSV-1HSV-2
Classic siteLips, mouth, faceGenital and anal area
Most common formCold sores (herpes labialis)Genital herpes (herpes genitalis)
TransmissionUsually in childhood, often via saliva/kissingUsually through sexual contact
PrevalenceVery high — most people have had contactRarer, but also widespread
Tendency to recurOften on the lipGenital often more frequent than HSV-1 there
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Important to know: the strict division „HSV-1 belongs on the lip, HSV-2 in the genital area“ is no longer accurate. Both types can occur at both sites. Genital herpes in particular is today in many cases caused by HSV-1 — for instance through oral sex, in which the lip virus reaches the genital area. For treatment the exact type usually does not matter much: the antiviral agents work against both. For counselling, the risk of recurrence and prevention, however, the distinction can be helpful, because genital herpes caused by HSV-2 recurs more often on average.

Alongside these two main forms there are further variants: herpes at the entrance of the nose, on the cheek or on the chin, herpes of the eye (herpes keratitis, an ophthalmological emergency), as well as special situations in small children (the painful first infection in the mouth, „mouth rot“) or in people with a severely weakened immune system. The basic principle always stays the same: the same virus, the same latency, the same treatment routes.


3. Symptoms & phases of a flare-up

A herpes flare-up almost always runs the same pattern — and knowing this pattern is the key to the right treatment. Because the decisive phase comes right at the start, before any blisters are even visible.

  • Warning signs (prodromal phase): hours to about a day before the visible outbreak, the flare-up announces itself with tingling, tightness, itching or burning at a defined spot. Anyone who knows their warning signs now has the best time window to act.
  • Redness & blisters: the skin reddens, then small, tightly grouped blisters filled with clear fluid develop. This phase is especially contagious.
  • Bursting & weeping: the blisters burst and a weeping, raw area forms. Here too the risk of transmission is high.
  • Crusting: a yellowish-brown crust forms. The spot heals slowly, without scarring, as long as you do not scratch.
  • Healing: after a total of about 7 to 10 days an untreated cold sore has usually cleared up.

With the first infection the symptoms are often stronger than with later flare-ups: more extensive blisters, pain, swollen lymph nodes, fever and a general feeling of illness can be added. With genital herpes the first infection is especially unpleasant — with painful blisters, burning when passing urine and swelling. Later reactivations are usually milder and shorter, because the immune system already knows the virus. The accompanying itching and burning are annoying, but a typical part of the course.

Get to know your warning signs Almost everyone with recurrent herpes feels a characteristic tingling or tightness at „their“ spot shortly before an outbreak. It is precisely this early sign that is worth gold: it opens the time window in which a cream or tablet works best.

4. Causes, triggers & reactivation

The actual cause is always the same: the herpes simplex virus lying dormant in the nerve ganglion. A flare-up does not arise from a new infection, but from a reactivation of the virus already present. The interesting question is therefore: what makes the dormant virus become active again? This is where the triggers come into play — and knowing them is one of the most effective levers against frequent flare-ups.¹

  • UV light & sun: intense sun exposure, for example on a summer holiday or while skiing, is one of the strongest triggers for cold sores.
  • Stress: both physical and emotional stress weaken the immune control over the virus.
  • Infections & fever: a cold or a feverish infection often reactivates the virus — hence the name „fever blisters“. Anyone prone to frequent infections often also has herpes more often.
  • Weakened immunity: anything that lowers the defences — certain medicines, illnesses or exhaustion, for instance — favours an outbreak.
  • Hormonal fluctuations: in some women flare-ups occur in step with the cycle, for example before menstruation.
  • Mechanical irritation: injuries to the skin, dental procedures or strong friction in the affected area can also set off a flare-up.

The triggers vary from person to person — and that is exactly what makes personal trigger management so effective. Anyone who notes over a few weeks when a flare-up occurs and what preceded it will quickly spot patterns: is it always the sun? Always a stressful phase? Always after an infection? Once the pattern is clear, many flare-ups can be avoided — for example through consistent use of a UV protection stick for the lips on holiday, or by acting early at the first signs of an infection.


5. Transmission & diagnosis, honestly explained

On the subject of transmission many guides make it too easy for themselves. So here is the honest part: herpes is contagious — namely through direct contact with the fluid of the blisters or with the virus in saliva or genital secretions. It is transmitted through kissing, shared glasses or towels, oral and sexual intercourse, as well as by touching your own blisters and then touching other parts of the body (the eyes, for instance).

Transmission even without visible blisters This is the point that is often left unsaid: the virus can also be transmitted when no visible blisters are present. In these phases the skin intermittently sheds virus anyway (so-called asymptomatic viral shedding). That is why „I can't see anything right now“ does not offer reliable protection — with genital herpes in particular this is important to know for how you deal with partners.

The most contagious phase is the one with weeping, open blisters. Sensible precautions during an active flare-up are: do not kiss (with cold sores), no shared glasses or towels, do not touch the blisters and wash your hands thoroughly after contact, no contact with newborns and people with a weakened immune system. With genital herpes, condoms lower the risk of transmission but do not remove it entirely, because not all of the skin is covered.

Diagnosis: in most cases the doctor recognises herpes at a glance from the typical appearance of the grouped blisters — a visual diagnosis. In unclear cases, with genital herpes, in a severe course or in special situations (pregnancy, weakened immunity), a swab is taken from a fresh blister and the virus is detected directly in the laboratory (PCR). A pure blood test for antibodies only tells you that there was contact at some point — it is not suitable for confirming an acute flare-up and is therefore only used in certain situations.

6. Treatment: the decisive time window

If you take only one thing from this article, let it be this: with herpes, the timing decides whether the treatment succeeds. Antiviral agents such as aciclovir only slow the virus while it is actively multiplying — that is, right at the start of a flare-up. Once the blisters are fully formed or already crusting over, the moment for drug treatment has largely passed.¹

The time-window rule Aciclovir (cream or tablet) works best when you apply it at the first tingling or tightness — that is, in the hours before the blisters become visible. If you wait until the blisters are there, the treatment barely shortens the flare-up. Anyone who knows their warning signs and keeps the cream within reach gets the most out of the therapy.

This also explains why many people are disappointed when a herpes cream „does nothing“: usually it was simply applied too late. The trick is to start the treatment at the very first signs — not only once you can see the herpes. That is why it pays to keep an antiviral cream at home and when travelling at all times, so you can react immediately at the decisive moment.


7. Medicines in plain terms

The treatment depends on how strong and how frequent the flare-ups are and where they occur. As a rule: mild cold sores can often be treated with a cream, while pronounced flare-ups and genital herpes usually need tablets.¹,²

Acute Treating the individual flare-up
Antiviral cream (Aciclovir)
For mild cold sores. Apply to the affected spot several times a day — as early as possible, ideally already at the tingling stage. The effect on duration is limited, but greatest with an early start.
Antiviral tablets (aciclovir, valaciclovir, famciclovir)
Considerably more effective than a cream, above all for severe cold sores, for genital herpes and for the first infection. Here too the rule is: the earlier the start, the better. Prescription only.
Herpes patches & care
Hydrocolloid patches cover the cold sore, protect against smear infection and cosmetically speed up healing. They do not fight the virus, but are a good companion.
Pain relief
With painful genital herpes or an extensive first infection, painkillers help and — when passing urine — urinating under running water. Seek medical advice.

With frequent recurrences (roughly from six or more flare-ups a year, especially with genital herpes) there is a further option: long-term or suppressive therapy. Here a low dose of an antiviral agent is taken daily over months. This markedly reduces the number of flare-ups, eases the symptoms and additionally lowers the risk of passing the virus on to others unnoticed. Whether such a therapy makes sense is something you decide together with your doctor's practice.

Preventive With frequent recurrences
Suppressive therapy
A daily low dose of aciclovir or valaciclovir over several months. Markedly reduces the frequency and severity of flare-ups and is used above all for frequent genital herpes.
UV protection for the lips
A lip balm with high UV protection before sun, beach and skiing holidays can prevent sun-induced flare-ups. One of the simplest and most effective prevention steps.
Do not go it alone in risk groups With herpes of the eye, in pregnancy, in newborns and with a weakened immune system, treatment always belongs in medical hands. Here flare-ups can be severe — over-the-counter creams are not enough.

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8. Preventing recurrences & managing triggers

Because herpes stays in the body, the most important long-term strategy is not fighting the virus but avoiding reactivations. This is where you make the biggest difference in everyday life — often without a single medicine:

  • Identify triggers: keep a simple diary over a few weeks: when did the flare-up come, what was going on beforehand (sun, stress, infection, cycle)? The pattern reveals your personal main trigger.
  • Sun protection: with sun-induced flare-ups, consistently use lip care with UV protection — not only at the beach, but also in the snow and during outdoor sports.
  • Reduce stress: enough sleep, breaks and relaxation techniques strengthen immune control and can lower the flare-up frequency.
  • Head off infections: if you know that every cold brings on a herpes flare-up, you can counter early at the first sign of infection and keep the antiviral treatment ready.
  • Support the immune system: a balanced diet, exercise and not smoking help the body keep the virus in check.
  • Avoid passing it on: during a flare-up, avoid kissing, shared towels and unprotected contact — and remember that symptom-free phases are not completely safe either.

The crusts themselves also want looking after: do not scratch them open and do not prick them, because both encourage an additional bacterial infection and can leave scars. Gentle care, hand-washing after touching and a patch over the spot help the skin heal cleanly. Another, rarer but important point: the spread of the blisters to other parts of the body via your own fingers — above all transfer to the eye should be avoided at all costs.

Herpes is not the same as shingles Both belong to the large family of herpes viruses and cause blisters — but they are different diseases with different viruses. More on this in the article on shingles, which is caused by the chickenpox virus and typically appears in a belt shape on the trunk.

9. Warning signs & when to see a doctor

Ordinary cold sores heal on their own and are harmless. But there are situations in which herpes must be medically assessed or even treated as an emergency. You should know these:

  • Very frequent flare-ups (several times a year) or extensive, very painful outbreaks — here it is worth discussing a long-term therapy.
  • Genital herpes, especially the first infection — always have it medically assessed.
  • Herpes that does not heal or spreads despite treatment.
  • Signs of an additional bacterial infection: increasing redness, pus, severe swelling, fever.
  • Pregnancy: herpes — above all genital herpes — must be supervised, in order to protect the newborn.
  • Weakened immune system: here flare-ups can run a severe and extensive course and need early treatment.
Emergency — see an eye doctor immediately or call 112 Herpes on or around the eye (a red, painful eye, blurred vision, sensitivity to light) must be treated immediately by an eye doctor — left untreated, damage to the cornea up to loss of vision is possible. In newborns, pregnant women and people with a severely weakened immune system, a herpes flare-up is always a medical emergency. At signs of brain inflammation caused by the virus — high fever, confusion, severe headache, a stiff neck or seizures — call the emergency number 112 immediately.

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FAQ: common questions about herpes

As early as possible — ideally at the first tingling or tightness, before the blisters become visible. Aciclovir only works while the virus is actively multiplying. Once the blisters are fully out or crusting over, the cream does very little. That is why it pays to always have it within reach.
No. After the first infection the herpes simplex virus stays in the body for life and lies dormant in the nerve ganglia. It cannot be removed completely. The individual flare-ups, however, can be treated well, shortened and — with the right prevention — made significantly less frequent.
Yes, that can happen. Even when no blisters are currently visible, the skin can intermittently shed virus (asymptomatic shedding) and pass on the infection. The most contagious phase is the one with weeping blisters, but „nothing visible“ does not reliably mean virus-free — this matters especially with genital herpes.
HSV-1 classically causes cold sores, HSV-2 classically causes genital herpes. This division has softened today, though: both types can occur at both sites, and genital herpes is increasingly caused by HSV-1 — for example through oral sex. For treatment the type usually does not matter much, since the antiviral agents work against both.
A flare-up is not a new infection but a reactivation of the dormant virus. Common triggers are intense sunlight, physical or emotional stress, feverish infections, a weakened immune system, hormonal fluctuations and mechanical skin irritation. The best way to work out which triggers matter for you is a short flare-up diary.
For genital herpes creams are usually not enough. Here antiviral tablets (e.g. aciclovir or valaciclovir) are generally used, especially for the first infection. Genital herpes should always be assessed by a doctor — also to protect partners and, in pregnancy, the newborn.
Two approaches: first, trigger management — such as consistent UV protection for the lips, less stress and countering infections early. Second, for very frequent flare-ups a doctor-supervised suppressive therapy, in which a low dose is taken daily over months. This markedly lowers the number and severity of flare-ups.
Ordinary cold sores are harmless. It becomes serious with herpes of the eye (a red, painful eye, disturbed vision — see an eye doctor immediately), in newborns, during pregnancy and with a weakened immune system. Signs of brain inflammation such as high fever, confusion or seizures are an emergency — then call 112 straight away.
Yes. Antiviral medicines shorten the flare-up but do not make you non-contagious straight away. During an active flare-up you should avoid kissing, shared towels and unprotected contact. A daily suppressive therapy can lower the risk of transmission but does not eliminate it completely.

11. Related topics

Sources

  1. German Dermatological Society (DDG) — guidelines on herpes simplex infections. awmf.org
  2. Robert Koch Institute (RKI): Herpes simplex virus infections. rki.de
  3. gesundheitsinformation.de (IQWiG): Cold sores and genital herpes. gesundheitsinformation.de
Medical disclaimer: This article is for general information and does not replace medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Antiviral medicines should be used for genital herpes, in pregnancy, with a weakened immune system and in children only after consulting a doctor. With herpes of the eye, seek ophthalmological help immediately; at signs of brain inflammation such as high fever, confusion or seizures, call the emergency number 112 immediately. Last updated: July 2026.